Tuesday, March 15, 2005

My India Visit


January 24 - February 20, 2005
Pictures Here

I visited India last month first time after coming here. It was, surprisingly, not as surprising experience, as I had expected it to be. Looks like I am still Indian enough! Except that for first week there I had pretty hard time crossing roads. Being accustomed to cars stopping before me, when I so desire in US, I had difficulty finding gapes in the continuous trafffic stream. My risk threshold has perhaps decreased.

I also had this wonderful opportunity to visit my communty fair, a once-in-a-twelve-year rare event, where all my family members and all relatives and everybody from my community gathered in a village for full eight days and seven nights. We stayed under tents and cooked food on chulhas and slepts on sheets on farmland and bathed at local well and had great time together. The purpose of this kind of gathering is to meet all your acquaintances at one place and thats what happened all the time. You just go to tents and meet people and they offer you snacks and you eat & chat. There were various rides, more specifically Indian jhula, and vendors as typical in any fair.

Staying among village people, who would not be tired geting too excited on being weighed on a talking (taped) weighing machine was nice opportunity too see rural India from so close. I liked this so much, and I didn't even make fuss about poor quality of drinking water even after being NRI, that I enjoyed every moment of my stay. I had chance to meet my numerous relatives, and see lots of new bhabhis and neices and nephews and friends, and pretty girls! Only part I didn't like in this whole affair was where I had to fill up a jug in the morning and look for ....

Monday, March 14, 2005

The Truman Show


I usually don't review movies. I am neither interested nor competent enough (this guy does, and pretty funny too). Nevertheless I can always express my opinions. Disregarding direction or any other aspect of cinematography that is there to be considered, and judging only by script, I consider The Truman Show an extreme example of creativity in script writing, of course, among the movies I have seen so far, along with the Blast from the Past. Story is a fusion of comedy and drama, and depicts the life on an individual adopted by corporations who is on TV live 24 x 7 without any knowledge of the same.

An ultimate dimension in reality shows!

Wednesday, March 9, 2005

Public hearing for tress!


Even after more than twenty month's stay in US, things always spring up which leave you surprised. Take for instance, this notice posted on some trees along the Massachusetts Avenue in MIT. It stated that those trees were planned to be cut, and a public hearing would take place at some-place at so-and-so time. Now, thats surprising, isn't it? While, in India, we do not even know about existence trees around us, and cutting them is mostly a matter of personal choice by the nearest neighbhour, or set of wood collectors, here they are holding public hearing for it. Interesting!
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Boston's fickle weather is never a news, but what happened today was something new, at least to me. It snowed in the evening today, but more importantly, winds too blew very strongly, and consequently it appeared as if it is raining snow! No amount of clothing - if it stays in place due to wind - could prevent you from hitting snow on your face. It is so crazily wonderful experience that cannot be captured in words, and unfortunately not in pictures too, unless you have water-proof camera, which I didn't.
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Today I came across a couple of websites which pictured some family. Interesting part is that they had pictures of every family member taken on same day every year for over 25 years! Seems pretty interesting to me, and I plan to start my own too, so we can really see how we grow old. Oops.
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Check this interesting article highligting India's Defence Research & Development Organization's achievements for what is has done for us!
http://in.rediff.com/news/2005/jan/17spec1.htm

Monday, January 24, 2005

When Gods conspired against me...


Going home should be an exhilarating experience. That’s what I had anticipated. Oh, so I will be going to my home in India after more than 500 days in this alien country with innumerable experiences to narrate and bagful of gifts for my brothers and cousins. The excitement didn’t leave me unsurprised when I found myself unable to concentrate on work days before my final departures date. Imagination ran vivid in dreaming myself when I will land in India, and words failed to vocalize wealth of information that I planned to flood my family with. Plans were made and remade, both here and at home, for what to eat and whom to see after so hyped about ‘foreign return’. It is perhaps pity that my both brother cannot meet me together since both had colleges and all they could cull out of their schedule of classes and exams was few days independently. I was wondering how would they decide which gift item to share among themselves? I could see myself imagining my late night discussions on myriad of topics as I will be meeting them first time after they went to college. And how excited was I thinking about eating my favourite food that my culinary skills and Boston’s restaurants couldn’t help me with. I tried making a mental list of things that will surprise me when I go back to India after one and an-half year in United States. And so-called first impression of developing country after living in developed environment would be a nice reaction to observe, isn’t it? May be I’ll be caught offhand by inflations and become weary of rising costs and expenses of my friends, or may be rash driving and pollution will leave me exhausted? And I eagerly waited for aloo ke paranthe that my father promised he would bring me when he comes to pick me at New Delhi airport. There was no end, and finally the day came.

This was January 22, 2005 Saturday, a pleasant but cold day in Boston, which was not rare at this time of year. With every thing planned to last details I was spending last few hours before I leave for airport joking with my roommates. Then it started at 12:30 AM. Saikat called me informing to confirm my flight on the day at 5:00 PM which was to drop me at Newark airport saying that "bad" weather is expected in the evening. When I called the airline, I was shocked with news that my flight is cancelled. What proceeded next was a fury of phone calls to Continental and Air India confirming flights and possibility of rebooking. Now it occurred that Air India was leaving on time at 9:10 PM from Newark to Mumbai but none of the airlines were flying out of Boston. The bad weather turned out to be worst ever snow storm and blizzard which left with more than three feet of snow around. Alternative to flying were bus or train however booth would take the only thing I didn’t have – time. Cancelling my reserved zipcar, I ran to airport with Lakshman in cab. After more than one and a half-hour in communication with customer support at Continental after trying all possible airlines, it became apparent that I would not be able to leave that day. Second international journey didn’t seem to start nicely. Long queues – up to half an hour a time – at customer support each time I called them kept all our cell phones busy. The battle on which airline will reschedule my itinerary tickets, that were issued by Air India but failed to materialize due to failure of Continental Airlines, left me harassed and enervated. By the time I was declared unable to board any aircraft, both train and bus had left without me. Also, my sanity could be very well doubted if I decided to take bus in that weather as chances of being stranded in the unknown place were far from remote. With distressed heart I came back to my room after pulling the luggage on public transit, the T, than cab to save some bucks. Late evening, I called up home to inform my parents about change in arrival dates, and to request rescheduling the trains. It was such an unexpected thing for them that it took some time to sink in. Worries about getting reservations at such short notice were not false as I later found. But next day wasn’t better.

Having burnt once, I decided to call each airline, Continental and Air India, every hour to confirm the flights. It was only 8:00 AM when I found that snowstorm lead to not only cancellation of all flights out of and in to Boston, but Boston Logan airport itself was closed until further notice. I was adamant to leave on Sunday as I was already delayed by one day and one more day’s delay would ensure that I would miss Republic Day celebration in India. Between bus and train, obvious choice was the train for the reasons highlighted earlier, though, and this is the irony of developed country, train journey for same pair of origin-destinations was costliest among air, bus and train. At 10:00 AM, we booked the 1:00 PM train to Newark Airport Station and called a taxi for 11:00 AM. But it never came. One more hardship was to reshuffle the entire luggage from my carry-on bag to check-in bags as luggage restrictions of Amtrak were more than international flights standards. And the adventure of dragging two bags of fifty pounds each along with laptop bag was not the ordinary one, as snow mounds outside stood taller than us at some places. With chilling winds blowing on our face, and mercury dropped below 25 degree Celsius below zero, we trudged along the makeshift way in show to nearest public transit station. Dragging, dropping, falling and slipping we made it to station, and luckily found trains running, though delayed. Once at South Station, hopes began to rise again as ticket was confirmed and train was declared to be on time. But it wasn’t so easy as just half-an-hour before departure, train was cancelled. Next two trains, at 1:10 PM and 1:30 PM, to our utter disappointment, were completely booked and left on time. However when I was upgraded to faster train at 2:10 PM which promised me to drop at Newark Penn Station at 6:15 PM, we soon contacted our friends at New York for best advise on reaching the Newark airport fastest. When we were all set to go, just 10 minutes before 2:00 PM, our train was announced to be delayed by 30-40 minutes. Now, that didn’t leave a comfortable time to check in an international flight, though chances were still present. I bid adieu to my accompanying friends as I decided to go for it, and in case I couldn’t make for flight, spend next day at airport. But question remained; what if that train got cancelled?

At 2:45 PM, train was further delayed by 30-40 minutes. That indeed deprived me of all possible hopes and I informed my friends that I would better go back home. It came to my notice that they couldn’t get public transit train even after half-an-hour of wait, as that was too delayed. I came out of station, and luckily we found a taxi to head back home. I rescheduled my flights once again and informed my parents of the same, after waking them up at 2:00 AM in the night. I was told that getting a reservation at one day’s notice was highly impossible and especially on Republic Day. But when Gods start to conspire against you what is in your hand? And now I am writing this narrative.

Mental strain may not be apparent from this factual narrative but would become apparent as four of us and our cell phones were busy all the time. Communication to check websites and find information, long waits on line for customer service, debating with uninformed and cynic customer service agents, debating utility of alternative options, contacting people for pertinent information, helping me packaging and repackaging my baggage, preparing quick food stuff in absence of time to cook, and last but not least trudging with me and my luggage in this horrible weather, kept pretty much us busy all the time. I cannot but thank them profusely for all their help. Now I am scheduled to leave Boston on Monday and it is forecasted that weather would be better, but do I trust? Not at all. This episode left me surprised at myself as I was disappointed but not irritated, which I used to do anytime something went wrong. Series of cancellations of just the train/plane I am suppose to take, and other number of minor problems makes me wonder if this is part of some grand conspiracy against me? Am I part of some Game? Or it is a some omen making me impossible to go since "something" is going to happen?

Worst is that I will not be able to meet even my brother who arrived home to welcome me but would leave by the time I will reach after two days delay. And the excitement to reach the home has turned into exhasperated desperation. One more night to wait, and pray that tomorrow would be The Day.

Monday, January 3, 2005

Various Links [News Clips]


Following are news clips/articles that I found interesting on the internet.



Gay Criminality - Keeping sympathy for gays seprate from criminal affairs of society



Some time back Census Bureau of India revealed religion based census figures which created hype in the pseudo-secular (aka Congress) and psudo-nationalist (aka BJP) parties and media. Data showed that rate of growths of Muslims is higher than Hindus and so on. Apart from the obvious long-term implication on demographic characteristics of region, one of the common point was non-secularism in having census count based on religion in a secular nation. I am amazed at the naivety of the media now. They seem to claim that religion-based sensor count is unconstitutional and differentiates between different faiths. Religion governs lives of many Indians (and many people across the globe) and it would be no good to deny that. This kind of count doesn't differentiate among religions as the sex based count (number of males/females) doesn't support gender-differentiation, or literacy based count doesn't differentiate in the value of life of literate or illiterate individual. Why do they fail to understand a simple logic, or perhaps it is the "fashion" to be "secular" now-a-days. And then this news...



Family planning is un-Islamic! and more...



And if my articles make you feel that I am "too" pro-India then perhaps following would give a glimpse of challenges ahead. Caution: This article is scary! ... Horros of India


Thursday, October 14, 2004

Wow! They are just like us!


Whenever any Indian/Pakistani contingent comes back home after visiting another country, they invariably issue statements, which mean: They are just like us. People are just same and want peace everywhere. Whole issue of Indo-Pak hatred is inexplicable and alive only due to politicians.



What a discovery! As if they expected to see aliens in the first place! What they conveniently forget that "those peace loving" people of Pakistan are killing thousands in J & K every year. Big deal if they speak same language, have same culture, and eat same food. What has Indian politician to do if ISI attacks Parliament and Musharraf invades Kargil? And what can Pak politician alone do when all Mujahideen stop killing people in Kashmir? Problem is with people and attitude.



If they feel so compassionate towards Pakistan, why not befriend Bangladesh, Nepal, Bhutan, Sri Lanka, etc. These are also "so similar" to us. Lets combine all countries and make one country. And fight till we die on the name of it.



I can't understand the direction this peace process is moving. Peace means, please do not attack us and do not support terrorism. After that, you mind your own business and let us mind our own. Why on earth this extra benevolence of free and generous exchanges of journalism, movies involving actors from side, cultural exchanges etc. Why not show such love to Bangladesh? May be it should also start militancy to have India shower favours on it. May be it already has! Remember: North-East is burning.



Why did God gave such neighbours to India?

Saturday, October 9, 2004

Nostalgia!


I am going to miss MIT. I am already feeling that. Perhaps I should be, since I am graduating next year only, eight months from now. Or perhaps I shoudln't, since I cannot forsee myself completing my thesis by then! But, two years are such a short span of time to make new friends and then loose them. I don't like it, and I find those lines of popular Hindi song, kyon hota he zindagi ke saath, very appropriate for myself. And people at MIT are so wonderful. So many great people I happened to meet here, and my defition of greatness is not limited to "academic" at all. After coming to Ashdown, life has been even better. So many nice people and so many fun things we do here.



I am really missing MIT!!


Sunday, September 26, 2004

Do we want that?


Very often than not, we compare ourselves to another country and find reasons why are we so bad in everything. It is of no consolation that we are in good and even very good position in many-many things - and yes believe me, we ARE (or compare India to many of more than three hundred listed countries on Earth) - because as the tendency of an average Indian is, we very carefully ignore whatever is good to talk about. Oh yes, I know only too well that when you criticize India you do not mean to harm her, but by analysing negatives you are only helping to improve state of affairs. I have no right to comment on your sacrosanct intentions but I urge you to critisize for bad but commend for good as well. I am sure you will agree that if you do not reward a kid for his good work but punish for bad, his/her motivation for doing good will be result of desire of avoiding punishment and not of accomplishment, which wouldn’t be strong enough and wouldn’t last long. For country, it simply translates to motivation of its policy makers and public.



In any case, even before you jump to critisize it is wise decision to analyse the facts and information which negative Indian media is filling you continuously with. India is often compared to China, for we were in nearly similar situation, while China has controlled its population and grown real super power economy and otherwise while India is still ... (you can fill in here)



I often asked myself this question that capitalism as it is in US is really good for society? I do not proclaim myself any knowledgeable on various forms of society but the question is this: if the results are good then can a bad method be justified? I didn’t know this till few months before that Chinese govt. does not permit any couple to have more than one child. I know, that this rule of "one child" applies only in cities and "two children" are permitted in some rural areas and there are other nuances of the law. But, I was literally shocked. Oh I know now, how come Chinese population is stablised and we are still flourishing. Whatever be the reason, I do not think that a government has any right to confine parental pleasures of a couple. Control of population should be by assent of people not by force. I feel really proud that we are democracy and such thing cannot happen in India. I know that large population is bad for country and that 25% of our people are very poor and about one-third are illiterate. I know that if we do not control than there will be serious consequences (deformed sex ratios, unemployment, hunger deaths etc.) but please, government’s duties should be to make people aware of this and then let them choose. If they choose to multiply blindfolded and suffer, they have right to. But how can one coerce someone to decide how many kids they can have? The idea itself is equivalent of dictatorship. Follow this article for more details on "success of China" compared to India and then decide for yourself.





While the US claims itself mightiest nation of Earth and a great democracy, I just wonder that how can educated public of US reelect Bush (as the likely case is) to office even after his massacre in Afghanistan and Iraq? Is US public completely insensitive to human life? Isn’t this act of attacking any country for no reason whatsoever (Daddy why did we attack Iraq?) utter terrorism by itself? Even though Uma Bharti roams around in name of Tiranga Yatra and even though we have Laloo Prasad Yadav as our Railway Minister, I feel that we are one of the wonderful democracies on Earth. Things are slow in India but at least people will not spare a conspirator of genocide. Our illiterate and poor people are more sensible than "educated" people of US. Isn’t it simply wonderful that we have NEVER attacked any country in last 10,000 years? Gloating on the past not necessary hampers the progress of the future.



Question is do we want the population control by coercion or economic success by raging wars, or would be prefer to be a little slow but go by genuine means. Are we fair if we critisize based on results without considering means? Do we want that?


Indian Hostage Relived from Iraq


A simple note. Chronology of affairs relating to kidnapping and release of three Indian workers in Iraq.



Three Indian people decide to go to Iraq to earn money by paying thousands of Rupees to illegal employment firms for foreign placement even after repeated instructions and orders by Ministry of External Affairs, Govt. of India advising not to travel to Iraq. They work for some time. And then, unfortunately they are kidnapped by radical Islamic group. They ask for help from Govt. of India to release them. Government forms a special committee, and contacts a negotiator in Iraq to talk to terrorists. Foreign country, brutal and unknown kidnappers, uncooperative Iraq government, mess of police and military in Iraq, and the negotiation continue. Natwar Singh issues a statement every other day. India media cry foul over lackluster approach of government and indifference towards the public lives. It is claimed that if a relative of minister would have been kidnapped, things would have been different. Relatives of kidnapped person issue statement of "not trust in the government". Things stretch for about forty days and surprisingly Indian hostages are relived. Special plane of Air India picks up these people for free-ride back home to be received at Airport by Hon’ble Minister with lots of fan fare. Media publishes lots of pictures and interview with these people. Relatives of the kidnapped people thank guru Govind Singh (there was some big ceremony in Amritsar around that time) for releasing their people. Things keep moving.



Moral of story: If things go wrong, blame the government. If things turn out right, thank the God. Of course, critisize any minister for whatsoever reason anytime.



Couldn’t we be a little more negative?


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